Initially it was the higher caste
that promoted the ideas of arranged marriages, but in time the other castes
adopted the custom as well.
Generally there are two ways
in which marriages are arranged. The first involves a contract established
between two families who agree that their children will be betrothed to one
another. A second method involves a friend or mutual acquaintance who
arranges and handles the details between the families of the bride and groom.
The process of finding a suitable
mate takes time due to the seriousness of the task. Family considerations
must be taken into account. These can include common interests, social
class, educational level, dowry and spirituality.
In most instances, this process
of arranged marriages is initiated by the groom’s family while he is still a
child. A marriage broker is often consulted to seek out a prospective
bride that the groom's family will find acceptable. Once this task is
accomplished, a date for the nuptials is set.